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The Why of My FI

April 29, 2018 By Deanna 4 Comments

If you are like I was one year ago, you might be asking what is FIRE? What is with all the acronyms? Is this really a movement? How do you define financial independence? This article is designed to break down the acronyms and concepts. Also, it gave me an opportunity to put words to my why of FI :). 

What Is FIRE?

So what the heck is this FIRE movement anyways?? I discovered the FIRE movement in the spring of 2017, which BTW stands for Financial Independence Retire Early. The more I listened to podcasts and read articles, the more I was blown away by what people in this community are doing. It all pivots from living off less than you make and saving the rest.  Delayed gratification at it’s best! 

There is a whole spectrum from which to choose your level of saving intensity. The math is obvious:

You may ask what are people doing with their time once they retire early? It seems to run the gamut – spending time with their family, raising their kids, homeschooling their children, gardening, teaching, volunteering, traveling the world, and pursuing passion careers – wow! 

My Why

Currently, I find fulfillment in my career and it’s not necessarily about retiring early. For me, it is about having options.

While I’m keen on building wealth, I’m discovering that it’s not the actual money that brings me gratification. The finite thing that I’m running out of here on earth is time. Financial independence will certainly give me more choices of where to spend my time. When you are not reliant on an income, you can take a sabbatical, a gap year, embrace flex time, work part-time, do mission work, travel, and simply help others more often.

My big why is all about helping others. Being that I’ve recovered from addiction/alcoholism, I’m drawn to helping others coming out of this same darkness. Yep, being financially independent will allow me more time and resources with which to do this. 

My faith is my life so when I hit my FI number, I recognize the freedom I will have to really go wherever God calls me. I have ideas of where/what this could be but it could be something I never imagined. The point is I’m willing to go and am being disciplined to create more space in my life for spontaneous mission work. 

Financial Independence

So what does financial independence mean? Firstly, it can mean many different things to many people. I know I felt a level of financial freedom as soon as I went above the line with my assets to debt ratio. However, it generally means having a large enough invested net-worth that you can live off the passive income it produces. 

There are several factors that come into play when trying to hit your FI number:

  1. Know your annual expenses
    1. This is where it can get fun by driving down your annual expenses with frugality & other creative life hacks
  2. Consider investing in low-cost index funds
  3. Consider passive income like real estate
  4. Take advantage of travel rewards (if you like to travel)
  5. Understand the 4% rule and the controversy surrounding it

My Annual Expenses

While being a student of Dave Ramsey, I became really good at driving down my annual expenses. I learned to analyze what truly brings me happiness in life. I discovered that stuff doesn’t make me happy. It seems kind of obvious when I write it. However, the reality is that we have so many things vying for our consumptive attention in this country. It takes some creative thinking not to fall victim to it.

The thing I value the most is relationships and those can be fostered without spending a lot of money. Yes, it’s true that the common thing to do with friends is going out to eat, and this can get expensive, but it doesn’t have to be the only way. Here are some creative ways to hang with friends:

  • Cook dinner together
  • Play board games
  • Take a walk together
  • Play sports
  • Do crafts (one of my favs)
On the slopes in NY

Okay, so I do have one expensive hobby and that is skiing. I mostly gave it up while paying off my debt. Now that I’m out of debt, I have a line item in my monthly budget for skiing and plan to do a lot of it next year. I will be exploring hacks for skiing at reduced costs and if I discover any, I’ll share. 

If you read my first article or know me, you know I lived with my folks for the last year & ½ while I paid off my debt. It’s time to move back out. I’m moving into a little apartment close to my work and while my housing expenses are going up, my transportation expenses are going way down. My new apartment is close enough that I can walk or bike ride to work, grocery stores, my gym, and parks. Huzzah!

With my new living arrangements, I am calculating my annual expenses to be at $26,317.80. That doesn’t include what I save or invest. It simply includes what I spend money on every year for things like tithing, food, shelter, transportation, and entertainment.  I’m always looking for ways to drive that down. My other consideration is that I will own a house again someday and plan to do a form of house hacking.

House hacking simple means finding a way to live for a very low cost or free. One way to do this is to buy a duplex or a triplex and rent out most of it out while living in part of it.

The Math of FI

Now onto the 4% rule and how that applies to annual expenses. The basic premise is that if you save 25 times your annual expenses, theoretically you can live off them without drawing the money down. You live off 4% the first year of retirement and then adjust for inflation the subsequent years and you’ll have a good chance of dying before the money runs out. The 4% rule came from the Trinity Study which was conducted by three finance professors at Trinity University.  

There are a lot of questions as to whether 4% is truly a safe withdrawal rate. The obvious things that can affect it are market volatility and inflation. Big ERN at Early Retirement Now is an expert on safe withdrawal rates and has written a 23 part series surrounding the complexities of it. I had the good fortune of meeting ERN at CampFI Mid-Atlantic and hearing him speak on this topic. Very small changes in withdrawal rates over time can make a big difference in the final portfolio value.

Ultimately I’m deciding on one main key ingredient in early retirement…

Flexibility

I think if one is going to retire early, there are several key factors in setting yourself up for success:

  1. Know your annual expenses (I mean really know your annual expenses)
  2. Account for additional expenses in retirement (i.e. travel, health insurance, etc.). Justin from Root of Good was also at CampFI Mid-Atlantic and gave a really good talk about retirement budgets and the typical things most people don’t account for. 
  3. Be willing to be flexible. Joel from FI180 has got this flexibility thing down. Consider listening to The Milestones of FI podcast episode.

How I plan to hit FI

At first, I thought that saving 25x my annual expenses seemed like an impossible feat. If we go with my current annual expenses, that will be $657,945. Now that I am an investor and understand the beauty of compound interest and low-cost index funds, I recognize it’s totally possible. What I love about saving for FI is that it’s really simple to understand. Remember simple doesn’t always mean easy, though. 

I have read several books on investment strategies and have settled on JL Collins book, The Simple Path to Wealth, as the clearest to understand and easiest to execute.  

My Strategy for 2018

Through my job, I have access to a simple IRA with Vanguard. My boss throws in 2% and I set up automatic pre-tax deposits to max it out ($12,500 in 2018). The good news is my contribution limit goes up to $15,500 in 5 years when I turn 50. For now, I have 80% in VTSMX (Vanguard Total Stock Market Index Fund Investor Shares) and 20% in VBMFX (Vanguard Total Bond Market Fund Investor Shares).

I chose 80/20 (stocks/bonds) for my asset allocation as I’m comfortable with that level of risk. Typically bonds and stocks are inversely related, and as JL Collines says, bonds smooth the ride.  Unfortunately, if we experience an inflationary decline, bonds and stocks are correlated and can go down together. This fact has me considering other asset classes to invest in…perhaps real estate or business? It’s yet to be determined but I have an online savings account which I am growing monthly for these options.

I also invest pre-tax dollars into an HSA account. I utilize Health Savings Administrators and set up automatic deposits to max it out for 2018 ($3,450).  With Health Savings Administrators I am able to keep 20% available for debit (health care expenses) and the other 80% gets invested in VTSAX (Vanguard Total Stock Market Index Fund Admiral Shares). 

Additionally, I opened a Roth IRA with Vanguard. Here I am investing in ETFs since they have no minimum and their expense ratios are as low as the admiral shares. I will be maxing this out for 2018 ($5,500).

If any of the above sounds confusing, stay tuned. I plan to write an article explaining what mutual funds are comparative to ETFs.

So there you have it, an explanation of why I got on this crazy train. Ultimately FI lines up with my mission in life and I feel called to embark on this journey. How about you? Let me know your dreams/thoughts/questions…

 

My Experience at CampFI

April 22, 2018 By Deanna 16 Comments

The Birth of This Blog Occurred at CampFI Mid-Atlantic

Due to the generosity of some extraordinary people, this blog became a reality at CampFI Mid-Atlantic.

Firstly, I have to give a shout out to Stephen, the organizer of CampFI, as he puts on an awesome retreat! It was such a fun-filled, inspiring weekend, that I want to share some highlights with you.  

Secondly, Seonwoo Lee gets the photo credit for the theme photo, karaoke photos, and sunset photo.  My new friend, Donna, gets photo credit for some of the presenter pics. Thank God they were on the ball capturing some memories.

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From Addiction to Financial Independence

April 19, 2018 By Deanna 79 Comments

It has been a long and winding road to even get on the path to be saving for Financial Independence (FI). I can say without a doubt that suffering does produce perseverance and perseverance, character and character, hope.  I am a better person because of the journey out of addiction.

Growing Up

I had a fairly normal middle-class childhood. However, I always felt incomplete and constantly searched for something on the outside to fulfill me on the inside. When I took my first drink in my teens, I became everything I thought I wasn’t. From there on out, I sought out the party.

Unfortunately, I learned to fly under the radar and became good at walking the tightrope of a dual life. I would maintain my studies and work life appearing to be a normal contributing member of society.  On the flip side, I would indulge in partying to the extreme.  My life ebb and flowed for many years this way without too many obvious consequences.

Playing with fire has a way of catching up with a person. In my 30’s I found myself deep in the trenches of addiction/alcoholism and not many people knew it. Early on I had developed the disadvantageous skill of hiding the pain with a pretty face. Conversely, the travail it took to dig my way out of addiction has been a salubrious skill that when applied allows me to overcome any mountain, including debt.

My Bottom

I came to a breaking point where I knew I was losing my mind.  I was faced with some serious choices and to be honest they were all bleak except the path of least resistance. That path ultimately resulted in surrender, admitting defeat and asking for help.

Recovery

I got sober 8+ years ago and returned to faith. The early years of my recovery were all about uncovering wounds, looking at my part, healing, making amends, forgiving and being forgiven. In this process, I took off the layers of lies and insecurities I had been cloaked in and traded them for my true identity. I discovered I am a passionate, loving, giving person with the gift to teach and help others.

Best reason to be sober – being Auntie Dee

 

Our greatest weakness can become our greatest strength. Those years I wasted in selfish and indulgent destruction are redeemed every time I help another person coming out of addiction or alcoholism.

About 4 years ago I became ready to clean up my financial wreckage and when I put out the call for help, I was steered to Dave Ramsey. For the first time in my life, I got on a budget and made a plan.

The Crash

During the process, I had to consider the austere reality of my home which was in a town that was not bouncing back from the crash of the market.  With some major things needing repair coupled with it no longer being a safe place for a single woman, I moved out. I moved into a ministry home (a form of house hacking by living with a community of people of a common faith) and pursued a short sale. After working with a realtor for a year, the short sale was declined and the house went into immediate foreclosure.

I had to pause my debt snowball and hire an attorney to navigate the foreclosure proceedings.  In the end, the bank bought the house back and waived the deficiency. I walked away fairly unscathed but it was a depressing and heavy process. I remember my attorney saying to me that at some point all the bad effects will level out and it will be time to start building myself back up.

Upwards and Onwards

I knew it was time and so I looked at the remainder of my debt (~$36k) and decided to turn up the intensity. I humbled myself and asked my parents if they would allow me to move in for about two years. They graciously said yes and immediately I got to work.

The first order of business was the possibility of having to pay taxes on the waived deficiency. I saved up a big mound of cash and then began attacking the debt with a vengeance.  

I embraced frugality and sacrifice and figured out the difference between a need and a want. Living with my parents made it very easy to say no to everything – from dinner out to skiing to highlighting my hair. I focused on the fact that I was there for a reason and a season and worked hard and got raises. 

I want to  pause here and emphasize some additional benefits, other than cost, of living with my folks in my 40’s:

  • My Mom is a great cook
  • Helping my parents
  • Second chances

My Mom always made sure I was fed. At first, I balked at her offer, thinking pridefully I know how to cook. Eventually, I decided to graciously accept. She loves to feed her family and I love to eat so why the heck now embrace that??

With the folks in their 70’s, I realized they need help with some things around the house. As a gracious beneficiary of free rent, I was happy to help. Now I am much more aware of how to continue to help them after I move out. 

Oh, how I love second chances. The last time I had lived with my parents I was in my 20’s and was pretty rebellious and disrespectful. I recognized God was giving me another opportunity to live under their roof in a respectful manner. Bonus!

Due to having more debt then assets, I learned I didn’t have to pay the taxes on the waived deficiency. Phew! So I kept the cash parked it in Ally online savings account as my emergency fund, now affectionately labeled my POM (peace of mind) fund, and kept applying my income to my debt.

Introduction to Financial Independence

A colleague turned me onto the ChooseFI radio podcast in the Spring of 2017 and my world was rocked – woah! I had no idea there was a vibrant community of people finding creative ways of doing life differently. Knowing instantly this was the next leg of my journey, I dove headfirst into the FIRE (financial independence, retire early) community and have not looked back.

I am happy to write that on December 29, 2017 (which was 9 months sooner than anticipated), I made my final payment on my student loans! In total, I paid off $46,763.37 in debt. This means that 2018 is not only a new year but a new chapter in my life, one in which I get to build wealth. 

I have set up automatic deposits to max out the following investment vehicles in 2018:

  • Simple IRA ($12,500)
  • HSA ($3,450) 
  • Roth IRA ($5,550)

All are invested in low-cost index funds.

I have additional money in my budget and I am now thinking about different asset classes to invest in. There are definitely, a couple of side hustles, or as Mrs. Wow, who writes over at Waffles on Wednesday, likes to call them, Besides Hustles, in the works. Stay tuned for details on my paintings. 

I am saving more now than I ever have. Although, I would like to continue to find ways to increase my savings rate; hence, the inspiration to write about it for the built-in accountability.

On this blog, I will chronicle the different levers I pull in pursuit of FI. Of course, I will include more stories of my past exposing the dichotomy of me then versus now.  This is such a stark contrast which started with some recognition, vulnerability and surrender sprinkled with intentionality, sacrifice, and perseverance.  

About Me

My name is Deanna and I am happy to be on this redemptive path. I got sober from drug addiction/alcoholism in 2010 and returned to a faith in Christ. Additionally, I finished digging my way out of debt in 2017. Today, I’m learning to be a wise steward/investor of my resources while helping other women find their victories too. More about me.

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