As a woman in recovery, I see people all of the time who want to change, surrender, start a new way of life. Unfortunately, most are not willing to do what it takes to make such a big change. Most people are looking for a quick fix and as we all learn from being alive long enough there rarely are quick fixes in life.
However, if we are willing to play the long game, there are fixes.
The good news is that change is possible! Old dogs can be taught new tricks.